Everyone remembers when they couldn’t wait until they were old enough to drive. A driver’s license is a symbol and opportunity to experience a new kind of freedom. For those who were allowed this early independence, driving meant assuming the responsibilities that sometimes weren’t able to be fulfilled by a parent.

In a society full of aging drivers, those very same feelings still exist in many people today, but safety issues are a concern as many move into their later years. As the life expectancy of seniors increases, more active senior citizens are out on the road today than ever before.

If you know an aging adult driver who is experiencing difficulty with driving, it is important to carefully monitor the situation and step in when necessary. Sometimes a refresher coarse on their driving skills or approaching them to give up their driver’s license altogether is a necessity. Many assisted living or retirement living communities offer driving programs that strengthen the driving skills of seniors. Ultimately, ongoing and honest communication is important to addressing the issue of driving. Many recently conducted studies show that while most drivers preferred to discuss the issue with their spouse, doctor or children (in that order), this is usually not the case for everyone. The right person may not necessarily be the most forceful or outspoken one, but rather someone whose judgment and empathy are especially trusted by the driver.

Determining who can best break the news is an important process. Talk with other family members, your doctor, and close friends to determine the best person for the conversation. Remember that driving signifies independence, freedom and being self sufficient to senior citizens who still lead active lifestyles. Realize you may be met with resistance and the aging driver may become defensive, even resentful. Don’t let emotion get in the way of a rational conversation. Don’t be afraid to express your concerns.

Assisted living marketing services are provided by 800seniors.com a leading referral system in the assisted living industry. For more information, call 1-800-768-8221. Sky Palma is a freelance staff writer

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